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	<title>Dare to Date</title>
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	<description>dating (mis)adventures of an average girl</description>
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		<title>hola de peru!</title>
		<description><![CDATA[just a quick update; i´m in peru until jan 9 and won´t be able to post until then.  hope everyone has a happy and safe new year!  kiss someone good for me  
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		<title>weekends were where we fell apart</title>
		<description><![CDATA[would you ever date a smoker if you were a non-smoker?  today i found myself contemplating that question.  i grew up with a dad who smoked, and i absolutely hated every second that he smoked.  i&#8217;m also really sensitive to smells, and the overwhelming, pungent nature of the smell of smoke tends [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=notwhatyoudexpect.wordpress.com&blog=5168605&post=155&subd=notwhatyoudexpect&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
		<link>http://notwhatyoudexpect.wordpress.com/2008/12/16/weekends-were-where-we-fell-apart/</link>
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		<title>i&#8217;m feeling the jimmy lately&#8230;</title>
		<description><![CDATA[Jimmy Eat World &#8211; Kill
Well, you&#8217;re just across the street
Looks a mile to my feet
I want to go to you
Funny how I&#8217;m nervous still
I&#8217;ve always been the easy kill
I guess I always will

Could it be that everything goes &#8217;round by chance? (chance?)
Or only one way that it was always meant to be (be)
You kill me, [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=notwhatyoudexpect.wordpress.com&blog=5168605&post=152&subd=notwhatyoudexpect&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
		<link>http://notwhatyoudexpect.wordpress.com/2008/12/13/im-feeling-the-jimmy-lately/</link>
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		<title>limbo</title>
		<description><![CDATA[it seems i will never truly find my footing in the dating world.  i heard back from the guy, but it is still a big, fat question mark.  he and his ex are supposed to talk some time this week to figure out what is going on.  he and i have been [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=notwhatyoudexpect.wordpress.com&blog=5168605&post=149&subd=notwhatyoudexpect&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
		<link>http://notwhatyoudexpect.wordpress.com/2008/12/08/limbo/</link>
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		<title>Generation Y &#8211; A Gamophobic Society?</title>
		<description><![CDATA[this morning as i was getting ready to leave for work, my thoughts wandered over to two of my friends who were both in serious relationships for a long amount of time.   both of them, i thought, were on the marriage path.  in fact, one of them was actually engaged to her [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=notwhatyoudexpect.wordpress.com&blog=5168605&post=139&subd=notwhatyoudexpect&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
		<link>http://notwhatyoudexpect.wordpress.com/2008/12/05/generation-y-a-gamophobic-society/</link>
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		<title>time</title>
		<description><![CDATA[remember when you were a kid and time seemed to last soooo long.  a day, an hour, heck, even sitting still for 10 minutes seemed like an eternity.  now that i&#8217;m all &#8220;growed up,&#8221; it seems that time has given me the proverbial middle finger.  i blink and the day is gone.  i never did [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=notwhatyoudexpect.wordpress.com&blog=5168605&post=141&subd=notwhatyoudexpect&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
		<link>http://notwhatyoudexpect.wordpress.com/2008/12/02/time/</link>
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		<title>hey, that&#8217;s about ME&#8230;i think?</title>
		<description><![CDATA[do you ever wonder if the cosmos are giving you the old wink-n-nudge?  in one of the online blogs I really enjoy reading, the writer mentions the &#8220;missed connections&#8221; section of craigslist.  i had never even noticed that section until she pointed it out, so of course as soon as i heard about it, i [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=notwhatyoudexpect.wordpress.com&blog=5168605&post=137&subd=notwhatyoudexpect&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
		<link>http://notwhatyoudexpect.wordpress.com/2008/12/01/hey-thats-about-mei-think/</link>
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		<title>post-Thanksgiving ponderings</title>
		<description><![CDATA[so, as the long weekend slowly winds down, i&#8217;m left in the wake of my guilty, mashed potato-induced lethargy.  it&#8217;s been a weird week, to be honest.  i have been consistently emailing this guy back and forth for about two weeks, and we were supposed to meet the wednesday before thanksgiving, but we never did [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=notwhatyoudexpect.wordpress.com&blog=5168605&post=132&subd=notwhatyoudexpect&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
		<link>http://notwhatyoudexpect.wordpress.com/2008/11/30/post-thanksgiving-ponderings/</link>
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		<title>the things you learn on a random outing with friends</title>
		<description><![CDATA[this past weekend, a few friends and I headed north to one of their parents&#8217; house.  he was supposed to dog-sit for his parents who were out of town, so the rest of us jumped in the car with him and headed out.  it was definitely an interesting journey, the kind you never [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=notwhatyoudexpect.wordpress.com&blog=5168605&post=127&subd=notwhatyoudexpect&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
		<link>http://notwhatyoudexpect.wordpress.com/2008/11/24/the-things-you-learn-on-a-random-outing-with-friends/</link>
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		<title>In Over My Head</title>
		<description><![CDATA[so i kept telling myself that i was done with online searches.  the paid sites were getting me nowhere, the free sites were getting me nowhere&#8230;i was done!  but i couldn&#8217;t stop looking.  it was like a bad car accident that people drive past and have to look at.  oddly enough, [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=notwhatyoudexpect.wordpress.com&blog=5168605&post=124&subd=notwhatyoudexpect&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
		<link>http://notwhatyoudexpect.wordpress.com/2008/11/21/in-over-my-head/</link>
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